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Readings


Why would I want to have a reading?
Having a reading makes me nervous. What will happen?
What’s the best way to have a reading? What do I need to do?
Is everything you say accurate?
What will the spirits be like?
Are there evil spirits?
Having a reading makes me nervous. What will happen?
Can I tell a spirit to go away, that I don’t want to talk to them?
How do you do readings? Do you see spirit?
What will spirit tell me?
How does a “gallery reading” or “platform messages” work?
Can spirit tell me what to do and what’s going to happen?
Can you give me a reading about my child, this person I like, someone I work with?
How often can I have a reading?
Do you get tired talking to spirits all day?

Spiritual Life Coaching

Why would I want a coach?
What issues can be changed with coaching?
Is coaching counseling?
What are the benefits from coaching?
What kind of person enjoys working with a coach?
How does the coaching partnership work?
How is coaching different from mediumship?
What is the difference between Life Coaching and Spiritual Life Coaching?

Healings

What’s the best way to have a healing?
What do I need to do?
How does healing work?
Why doesn’t everyone get healed of their physical issues?
Is one healing method better than others?

Products

How do I get the most out of your meditation CD?
How do I get the most out of your card deck?

Readings

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A reading can be inspiring, healing, fun, emotional, exciting, awesome, low-key, affirming. It’s an opportunity to allow your loved ones to communicate with you.

Why would I want to have a reading? There are several reasons someone would like a reading. One of the most important ones is when the client has lost one or more people and he/she wants confirmation that the person or people still exist(s), and are present in his/her life. Another reason people have readings is to find out about their lives: career, financial, relationships, family, spiritual growth, etc.

Having a reading makes me nervous. What will happen? I’ve done readings for a lot of “first-timers!” First, relax. I’m not a mind-reader; I don’t know everything you have ever said or done in your life. I’ll bring in spirit, get identifying, evidential information about them, and see what they have to say to you. Frequently they will describe what kind of person you are and give some information about you as well. This helps to establish that this spirit knows you. You don’t have to have known them, for example, a grandfather who passed when you were a baby. Whether or not you knew them is irrelevant. Your “people” in spirit still love and care for you from the other side. As the reading progresses, I’ll ask you questions to make sure the information I’m giving you is accurate. Answer yes or no. A successful reading is a combination of you, me and the spirit(s). Between the three of us we can usually figure out what the message is about. Most of the time I have no clue what I’m talking about, they may not give me details about situations in your life but they will give you messages that they think are important. And always, if you don’t understand something, ask a question. Maybe I need to get more information, or have the spirit rephrase what they are saying. I like to make sure we are getting the information you came for, so at the end I’ll ask if you have any questions that weren’t answered.

What’s the best way to have a reading? What do I need to do? Have an open mind, allow spirit to give you the information spirit thinks is important, and answer questions as to the accuracy of the information, to the best of your knowledge. It’s very helpful if you come to a reading with an open mind. If you are looking for a certain person to come in and communicate with you, you can set your intention ahead of time and invite them to come. They do hear you! That being said, it is all spirit-driven; the spirits decide who is going to come based on their need. So while you hope to talk to one person in particular, it is best if you are open to whoever comes in, since they always come with a particular reason. You might be surprised and happy with who visits with you!

Is everything you say accurate? Unfortunately, no! I may be misinterpreting information, not getting all of it, or off-base. But a vast majority of the time, the spirit is communicating clearly and we can get really good information. I have also found that sometimes, when it doesn’t seem right at all, it turns out to be right after a bit of thought on the client’s part or at a later date. So it is wise to take everything under consideration and just remember things that we weren’t sure of.

What will the spirits be like? Frequently a spirit is exactly the way they were when they were here in the physical. If your grandmother was a big talker, she’s probably still talking!

Are there evil spirits? I do not believe in evil spirits. I have yet to meet one. I have however, met some spirits who were not very nice in their lifetime and were a bit “grumpy” on the other side as well, but frequently if that is the case, they would like to apologize for their behaviors.

Can I tell a spirit to go away, that I don’t want to talk to them? Yes, you can. Do consider listening to their message first just in case it is healing or helpful; they may want to apologize. But if you do not want to, that is your right.

How do you do readings? Do you see spirit? All mediums work in different ways. I sense them, I may feel their physical issues within my body, I hear them, and I see them in my mind’s eye.

What will spirit tell me? Spirit will tell you whatever they think is important. For example, a certain person may want to tell you they are sorry for the way they treated you or to congratulate you on your growth as a person, etc. In my experience, they frequently want to tell you they are feeling much better, or to encourage, inform, and help you live a better life.

How does a “gallery reading” or “platform messages” work? This when a medium stands in front of a group of people giving messages to random people. Some mediums will go directly to a person and give a brief message from spirit, while others will bring in a spirit first, with identifying information, and allow someone in the audience to “claim” that spirit. In either case, it usually is important that the medium hear your voice (to strengthen the connection to spirit) so be sure to respond vocally. Don’t be afraid to claim a spirit if it sounds like someone you know!

Can spirit tell me what to do and what’s going to happen? Sometimes. BUT remember that you have free will and can do whatever you want. The future is not set in stone – YOU are the one making the choices to shape your future. Some spirits do like to give advice. Another point to consider is would you have listened to that person’s advice when they were here?

Can you give me a reading about my child, this person I like, someone I work with? In a reading for you, we might certainly touch on the people around you, as they are related to you. It is not ethical to do a reading solely about another person. It violates their privacy. If they want a reading, they can make their own appointment.

How often can I have a reading? Once every six months or more seems to work well. More frequently and you won’t have time to process and the spirits may not have anything new to say!

Do you get tired talking to spirits all day? No. The spirit is coming through me, not from me. I’m a channel for the energy. It frequently invigorates me! It’s exciting to talk to them and I have met some wonderful spirits.

Spiritual Life Coaching

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Why would I want a coach? Coaching is a great way to take control of your life! Your coach can help you find clarity on your dreams and goals and the action steps you can take to achieve them. You will get insights into who you really are, what might be holding you back, and what you can do to transform your energy into one of self-empowerment. When you are empowered, you are moving forward, making positive shifts in your life, to create a happier, more fulfilling life! A coach will also help you become accountable as you take your action steps. A coach is a partner to help you live a better life!

What issues can be changed with coaching? I have a gift of helping someone see the potential within themselves, helping them recognize they have the power to change their lives. Coaching can help with all of life’s challenges: job issues, relationship problems, spiritual growth or questions, family and health concerns, and various life transitions. If you have confusion, frustration, pain, self-doubt, negative emotions, or questions about your life purpose, coaching can help! If you want to create something: write a book, develop a business, create a better job, coaching can help you get there. Coaching can benefit almost any situation and is all about seeing positive results.

Is coaching counseling? No. Counseling usually deals with getting a better understanding of emotional issues in one’s life and finding ways to handle them. Coaching may find past or present emotional blocks or situations in your life that are affecting you, but we are not dealing with those issues the way a counselor might. For example, we may discover a past situation that resulted in a limiting belief for you and we would work towards changing that belief, but we would not be working on the emotional effect of the situation.

What are the benefits from coaching? Coaching can create positive feelings of purpose, peace, understanding, self-awareness, hope, happiness, inspiration, and achievement. Ultimately, coaching expands your awareness so you feel purposeful and empowered, living the life you want to live!!!

What kind of person enjoys working with a coach? A person who is interested in self-improvement, is willing to work towards his/her dreams and goals, and desires to transform some aspect of their lives, will really enjoy coaching.

How does the coaching partnership work? In individual sessions we will discuss your goals and create steps to achieve them. In those appointments we may do meditations, writing, and transformational processes, etc. so you can get insights on how to best move forward. All of my clients have unlimited email contact so I can continue to support them as they have realizations as their perceptions and actions change.

How is coaching different from mediumship? In a reading I am giving you information from spirit. In coaching, you are actually directing your progress. With my support and guidance as an outside perspective, you will discover and decide what your goals are and how to take action. I do use my intuition and spiritual guidance when coaching. If a spirit really needs to talk with you, I will bring them in with your permission.

What is the difference between Life Coaching and Spiritual Life Coaching? By adding a spiritual component, some find that developing a stronger connection to their source of spirituality enables them to grow more profoundly. For those who want to, I work with the spiritual aspects in coaching using the God, spiritual source, or universal energy you rely on.

Healings

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What’s the best way to have a healing? Set your intention as to what you want healed and then let it go. Don’t think about your healing request, just know that it is heard and the universe will provide the healing that is right for you. Allow the healing energy to work as it should. Everyone gets a healing of some kind.

What do I need to do? Relax, shut your eyes and experience. Notice what comes up. Are you feeling energy, tingling, cold, heat? Are you having odd, interesting, insightful thoughts? Does your body feel different? Just notice, observe what you feel without judging it or thinking about it. Just notice. Whatever you feel, is right for you. Allow the energy to flow where it needs to go. At the end of the session we will discuss what you and I felt.

How does healing work? Everything is made up of vibrations. Everyone has an optimal vibration when they are healthy but when mental, emotional, spiritual or physical issues disrupt, the vibration of the body will change. A healing realigns the vibration back to a healthier vibration. The body is meant to heal itself; a healing session helps the body access that healing energy.

Is one healing method better than others? In my extensive research, I have found that all methods can be equally effective and all methods are really a form of spiritual healing. Using different methods may appeal to different healers and clients, but with a solid intention of healing plus some method (simple or complex), healing will occur.

Why doesn’t everyone get healed of their physical issues? There are many reasons. Maybe the emotional healing is more important. Maybe it is not their path. Maybe a person is to learn more about themselves, how to live better, more fulfilling lives, or how to access a deeper spirituality, that wouldn’t come about if they were physically healed. One should never feel guilt about having a physical illness. A physical illness is not the result of some form of punishment or not having the “correct” thoughts, it just is. That doesn’t mean a physical illness can’t be healed because it can and I have seen it many times. But if it isn’t healed, there is no “failure” in that. When you receive a healing session, you always receive a healing in some way.

Products

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How do I get the most out of your meditation CD? These meditations were created for people who don’t regularly meditate and need guidance. They were designed to be short and a little quick moving, so your thoughts won’t wander away. To get the most out of them, I would do one meditation and if you’re in the mood, you can stay in a meditative state after it ends. Follow your intuition as to which one to start with, how many days to stay on one and which one to move to next.

How do I get the most out of your card deck? Pick a card and use it for a day or longer. It’s the little mind shifts and action that make a big difference. Nothing will happen without some action on your part. These cards were channeled to assist you with improving your life, one step at a time.

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